You may be familiar with The King of Paranoia and the Queen of Rationalization. Let me tell you a little more about the Queen of Rationalization. I have never been vigilant. I dropped my wallet getting out of my car in college. Luckily, I lived in Minnesota, where everyone’s kindness is above average, and a good neighbor rang my doorbell with wallet in hand. On another Boston trip I left my laptop at airport security and happily boarded my flight home. A month before leaving New York, my wallet was lifted straight out of my wide open bag on the subway. I didn’t even notice until I got home. That’s me. Ultra-responsible with most things in life, but oblivious with others.
Here is another situation for which I can thank my character flaw. On our last day in Athens, while packing, I noticed two things missing. The first was may camera case, which had the equivalent of $50 (no camera). The second was 12 crisp $100 notes taken from my wallet. Whoever swiped the money was kind enough to leave one Benjamin. The scariest part is that my wallet was always in our rental apartments. Sandeep carries around the cash we needed and I kept the stack of U.S. Dollars stored for later conversion. I never bothered to check the contents of my wallet because I figured there were always safe in our apartments. We have had cleaning people and babysitters, so someone we had trusted effectively robbed us. My mistake was that the wallet was loosely tucked under a pile of clothes or thrown into a suitcase rather than locked away or truly hidden. I was obviously upset about the situation (Sandeep was, to put it mildly, livid) but more than the money, we felt violated that it had been stolen from a place we called home.
Until our midnight cycling in Athens, we had never once felt unsafe during our trip. So far we have been to places that are conventionally considered safe. We are now in Africa, first Namibia and then South Africa, followed by Rio de Janeiro. These places have reputations for things more serious than pick pocketing and petty crime. In a way, if I needed a wake up call to swing me over to paranoia, Athens was the perfect time for it to happen.
We drove around Windhoek on our first night here in search of dinner at what was described as “a local African restaurant”. The more we searched for this elusive spot, the deeper we went into deserted streets. The only place we felt comfortable stopping for directions was at a Hilton. There, the valet gave us a long lecture about car jacking, not driving to areas we don’t know, and only visiting restaurants where a valet is on hand to guard the car. The old me would have brushed this off as crazy talk but the new me directed us straight to one of the better spots in town, where a valet gave us the peace we needed to enjoy an amazing Portuguese dinner.
We are not happy about the loss of money. I am also annoyed that I lost a great camera case. But since I never listened to the King of Paranoia when he told me to take better care of my stuff, this was the lesson I needed to prepare me for the rest of our journey.
Now I check my bags every few minutes. I have a constant eye on the kids. I hide everything in places only a mouse would find. My $1,250 lesson in vigilance has made me the Princess of Paranoia, at least for the next few months. Plus, I don’t know that I can ever fully let go of the Queen of Rationalization role.
8 Responses to Our Money Gets Stolen and Other Crimes
I WONDER WHY YOU WERE CARRYING CASH. SHOULDN’T YOU BE CARRYING JUST CREDIT CARD AND DEBIT CARDS?
USE CREDIT CARD TO PAY FOR ANYTHING WHENEVER YOU CAN, USE DEBIT CARD TO GET LOCAL CURENCY FROM ATM.
Yes, that is absolutely the right thing to do. We carried the cash in the event that we were in the middle of nowhere and couldn’t find an ATM. What we have learnt is that there are ATM machines in every corner of the world now (except Burma…) and cash really is not necessary. Lesson learnt.
Mum says ” Hopefully whoever took the money needed it more……..”
Words of wisdom from Dharamsala? Yes, she is right. That’s what we said as well.
oh no diya i’m so sorry!! i’m glad the king of paranoia is now leading you down the right path to staying safe 🙂
Thanks. Yeah, I am checking everything several times a day now. I feel like I am going insane, but I suppose it’s an adjustment period.
Thomas K Thomas and your Mum have expressed my exact thoughts. No need to add more except…stay safe my lovies! & yes, I know that is not a word!
Lovies is a word 🙂 I know better – now I just give Sandeep everything!